Giving Grace to so called Friends who love to cover the shame with a lie

I've been giving grace to my friend for as long as I have known her. We met because she found a sympathetic ear in me. She has been one of those the longer I have know her the more I see some of her lies come out. Mostly innocent one but ones that really just bug me. I have not only kept my mouth shut but guided her in to recognizing this fault in her. When she make a bad decision she can't face looking at herself and accepting the responsibility of it. If she has guilt she plays the victim and blames others for her lack of decision making. She wants others to make decision for her because she incapable of doing this for herself so when it goes wrong she does not have to accept responsibility.

 She can blame whoever she wants. I want to be the kind of friend that calls my friends on there craziness while it happening. Some friends can be considered lost causes, I believe she just might be one of them.  I am ready for the fall out because she just that kind of person. I try to hold my friends close. I thought she could be one of those close ones but it seems to be she has nothing but jealously and envy leading her in her decisions. I can not partake in the fault blaming victim routine any more 4 years have been givin, lips have been bitten, grace has been givin and hearts have been broken.  I can no longer extend my loving hand of Grace and be able to not create drama. So it straight forward can't be your friend don't have to justify conversation with her already. I pray for all of you who have gone through this with broken heart, just remember broken people lash out at other. People are cruel and mean and if they continue to be harmful to the friendship you need to reevaluate what you are getting or causing in the friendship to make it so pathetic and full of anger.  Like I told my son don' t be friends to people that don't treat you like a friend.  1 Cor 13- talks about the definition of Love and I like to be reminded of that because if you do not feel love from your friends as defined in 1 Cor. 13 than they are no friend at all.